Their addiction treatment isn’t working–now what? A family’s guide to harm reduction (with Dr. Sheila Vakharia)

About the episode

Drug tests. Revolving doors of rehab. Judges and parole officers deciding what "recovery" looks like.

Maybe you've watched your loved one go on methadone or Suboxone and wondered if they're really in recovery, or just trading one drug for another. Maybe you've sat through a drug court hearing, or waited on a call from a parole officer, wondering why the system keeps deciding what "getting better" looks like for someone else's life.

When treatment is dictated by courts and external forces instead of the person who needs it, why doesn't it work and what does it look like when it does?

If the skepticism, the confusion, the exhaustion feels too familiar, this episode is for you.

Guest: Dr. Sheila Vakharia, MSW, Deputy Director of the Department of Research and Academic Engagement at the Drug Policy Alliance and author of The Harm Reduction Gap

Dr. Vakharia is a national expert on harm reduction and drug policy. Her path — from an abstinence-only outpatient counselor to a syringe service program provider to a PhD in Social Welfare — was shaped by seeing firsthand how one-size-fits-all treatment fails the people who need care most. Today she bridges research and policy, frequently cited by outlets like NPR, The New York Times, and TIME, and has helped shape drug policy conversations from local drug courts to the United Nations.


This episode will help you

  • Realize why addiction is the only health condition where people are expected to be "cured" before treatment starts

  • Understand the stigma around methadone & buprenorphine — and why they're not "trading one drug for another"

  • Shift your mindset on how the criminal legal system can be both a lifeline and a barrier to real care

  • Learn courts, insurance gaps, and fear-based messaging keep failing families

  • See what families can actually do — from pharmacy advocacy to sharing your story with lawmakers


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